November 21, 2024

She wants to delete the word “Guilty”.

Sorry, blamed, at fault, ashamed…. and many more synonyms attached to it. So strange to see how convenient these words have become in daily life.

How life has been revolving around these words, saying sorry is so convenient that most of the time we start our conversation with “sorry” . Feeling Guilty for silly things is so common now, she can’t even wrap her mind around :P. Feeling guilty for eating dessert and guilt-free when eating healthy, strange right :).

Please don’t take it in wrong way, life is hard and we have all kind of emotions in it, we feel sad, we feel guilty and we do stupid things which we are not proud of, take the blame for all that there is no harm in doing so but all I am asking is why these words are now associated with happy emotions as well. Happy is simply happy not guilt-free, feeling sorry because you missed a call or text from your friend how silly right OR are you in that state where feeling happy is actually feeling guilty.

Many articles, books and blogs are teaching about living a guilt-free life, makes me wonder what she has done to label her entire life with “guilt”, there is more to express and there is more to life. All I want to say is stop pretending and start living. We all know not everything is “Black” and “white” similarly not everything happens with you is “Guilty” or ” Guilt-free”. If you are happy say it out and make sure you are LOUD about it , there is no shame or fear associated with that happiness.
” I am happy and I OWN it “.

For all the She’s……………sing it out loud ” I am happy and I know it “.

SHE.


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