by Let’s be honest for a moment and think , if she is being real or she is pretending to be ? What is this fear, why she is afraid of showing her real side to everyone? Is she afraid of not being accepted ?
Smiling when actually you want to cry, Why ? Pretending to care when she know she doesn’t, Why? Concerned about what other will think of you, Why ? Pleasing everyone, Why ?
One thing she knows for sure, that she is not alone in this game of Why’s, she has a sense of reality there. Its not just her, everyone she met has this fear of missing out, be it in social circle, work place or family. Every “she” is in a race unknowingly, race of good looks, race of showing off , race of promotion or race of being in good books, sad reality.
Commenting on outer objectives is very easy, be it the looks, weight, appearance, style or anything but appreciating the efforts is hard. She who is partying hard with her friends leaving her kids behind might had a rough day which no one cares to know but she is easily labeled as irresponsible, she who is working out and trying hard to achieve the “good looks” meter set by surroundings might just came out and eating a pizza after months but gets judged easily on her appearance, She who often updates her social pictures with new dress or places is often considered as lucky, rich or blessed might have been saving for life to be at this stage. It is very easy to bring the person moral down but it takes a lot of effort and courage to know the real side of her.
Be real and don’t give in to the cherry picked version of people’s life, what you see on social reels are not real. Have you ever showed your real emotion or picture on any platform, is the question I ask to all of you ? So please be kind and stay true to those who are real towards you, appriciate the efforts
Live, laugh and love without FOMO.
