by Freedom of heart, mind and soul. You heard it right, that’s what she wants .
No pleasing others when you don’t feel connected with them, no buttering for any social pressure, no explanation if you don’t want to give and no obligation what so ever, she wants to feel free from all this nuisance ..What’s wrong in it ? It’s her life after all then why she don’t have that liberty? She is not alone to think that way but is there any solution or remedy to fix it?
She knows her heart and mind are not in sync on various occasions, heart says one thing and mind keeps on suggesting different which can be explained by very simple examples :
Lets go shopping (i like this dress, wow this purse is beautiful) moment later… ohhh maybe i will come again with my friend or husband to have second opinion :), ok another one, She wants to eat out , after wasting time and effort in deciding what to eat (Chinese night , American, Indian or pizza) ahh.. she will end up saying lets just eat simple (healthy you know for kids) , what about vacation plan (tropical or mountains nah summers will be good) amm…. brain is sending worry signals by default (kids/school/ office/ work..plan plan plan) and she will end up saying.. we will plan later. These are just few simple things but confusing enough because her mind is tied with so many things which makes it impossible for her to feel free and decide for herself. She will leave one thing and find 100 other things to ponder on. Just a viscous circle of worry she revolves into.
There is a reason why most people joke about women and her brain being wired with 1000 anonymous wires of worry .She can’t stop worrying be it home, family, children, work, friends, neighbors, news, celebrity or anything in world.
Easily said then being done, but real and hard truth is there is no magic word, pill or remedy that can set you free, it has to come from your heart and mind , a pure effort and courage to block unnecessary ciaos that pulls you back, take single step at a time, chase your dreams without worrying about failures , stay true and accept your desires before anyone else. you deserves the freedom for yourself and for your surroundings, no one can stay happy being locked up in a cage of life where everything is controlled and orthodox.
